When I asked my W if the OM wife knows she said the OM told her his marriage was dead and she knows he is having an affair. I asked her have YOU talked to the Wife. My W said "No but I trust him" I answered he back “ya know I trusted you and look where it got me" and I walked away. One of my finer moments.
And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know