Thanks both of ya
I pretty sure she is feeling the guilt. But she was single for 30 years before we met and is used to being so damn independent. She is also a Libra and I'm a Pisces.
Not to get my hopes up but... She seems to have softened a little. I think I have her curiosity peeked. She knows I'm talking to another Woman.... I think she may realize she is now on a time line. Wait to long and she may lose me. She has no reason not to trust me however with her "mistake" it does kind of leave it open. Called her cell at lunch time to let her know I came home early to pick our son up. No answer. She called home about 20 later from her work phone. When I answered the phone she said "oh you home" I told her yes and I left her a message on her cell phone because she was going out to her car at lunch. (I know from when I was a bad boy and was checking her cell phone log she was calling the OM).But……I….don’t…..check …it …any…more..!!! She said she does not go to her car anymore for lunch.

Detachment and having a fun time with my friends and son I think is making her feel left out.
Then again who knows? She said she wants me to go see her C. with her so her C can meet me.
Any inputs??


And if I claim to be a wise man, well
It surely means that I don't know