Hi Cobra.

Regarding your sitch, does this new insight of yours only apply to relationships going forward, with new people, or can it be applied retroactively? Have you imposed a door on the past beyond which your new insights are not to apply?

You know persistance can be a pretty good attribute. ;\)

probably the most painful and one of the hardest lessons for me to accept, and ironically I dont get to use that insight. \:\( lol It only applies to LTR's. I did apply it or the reconcil would not have happened. When I said to x, 'I will never see or speak to you after the D.', I was not implementing a Plan B tactic.