I want to get him something but it can't be sentimental or anything like that. Would anyone have any ideas? I had also thought about putting a letter with the card letting him know I forgive him and that from this day on I plan on moving forward. Good idea or no?
Yvonne, You can certainly forgive him, but I wouldn't say that to him just yet. Don't make it too easy for him. Partly what keeps him in contact with the OP is his sense that you're going to be loyal no matter what. You will need to change this pattern.
It's great that you're willing to work on the M, but he's not ready to work with you. He hasn't given you any sign that he's ready to commit to the M.
Educate yourself on the basics of DivorceBusting (DB). You may pick up the lingo and concepts from reading other posts. You will need to change how you relate to your H.
Read "Divorce Remedy" and let us help you put together a plan.
CL
CL 53 W 54 M 20 yrs. 03'-09' Separation + Old Patterns + GAL 10-14' Piecing
"The Master allows things to happen. She shapes events as they come."
