That's what I'm questioning. "Why" does she feel she cannot remain married? She has said that she feels that things will not change if she gives it another try.
I did say that I would talk with my parents, but I really don't know why she will not continue to work on the marriage. After 13 years together, I just don't think walking away is the answer. True, our marriage was sexless for a long time. But, I know things can change. I just need another chance. She just seems to have made up her mind and isn't willing to change.
In regards to her statement of "I hope that once we talk that you can understand my reasoning, and if not, at least respect it." I would like to know what her reasoning is as to why she doesn't think it can work. Why she won't give it another try?
Should I email her, call her? She said that she was going to write me a letter, but she hasn't done it.
What can I do to get her to give me another chance?
