You misunderstand me. I've already stated, above, that I not only consider myself "ripe for an affair, EA or even PA", but also that I'm basing my own actions and decisions with a possible future divorce in the back of my mind.
All I've said here most recently is that I don't think she's actively SEEKING it.
Either way, it's not really an important distinction, as any affair -- or divorce -- would have devastating effects.
Everyone (including my own daughters) seems so concerned about my wife's needs and validation; how come nobody ever seems to notice that the man is hurting too?
What came first here, the chicken, or this latest egg?
