We have discussed PT and his feelings. First I would say I think he is a very good person who, if I had a 21yoD, I would want her to date. He is not very confident around women despite his personal appearance, and he has only really had one major relationship in his past. I think he does have feelings toward my wife because I don't think he has ever had such a close relationship with a women before. However, I don't think he would do anything to jeopardize the family bond.
My wife is probably more conflicted about the fantasy of being young and beautiful again--able to be attractive to such a "young Stud" again. I believe her identity has changed so much a her physical appearance has changed that she doesn't want to admit that she is a 39yoF and Mother. She wants to be young and free.
