I think you need it not because there is anything WRONG with you (I want to make that clear), but because....you need to recognize the behaviors in you that attract strong women like the ones that you have attracted, who use you and are later turned off (sexually at least) by your generous/giving/laid-back personality. If you can learn to recognize these women, you can learn to avoid them and find women who are TRULY compatible to you.
There is NOTHING wrong with your personality...nothing at all, so don't think I'm saying that...personally, I like your personality. Counseling can help you recognize behaviors in yourself (at the onset of a relationship) that you perhaps don't keep up later on when things become more comfortable and you are more who you are naturally, and you become more laid-back. It can also help you recognize women that NEED a stronger man continually. Are you a stronger personality consistently? I'm thinking...probably not, that's just not who you are. So...it would be helpful for you to learn to recognize women who would be more compatible to you permanently....so you can still be who you are naturally, and not have to constantly be a stronger/more controlling person.
That's why I think counseling would help you. It would help you grow, not fix you...just help you grow.
