Good to hear from you and to see that you are doing well, even though you seem a little down. That was a good post to Choc. I hope he can work through his mountain of resentment. I have a question for you.
....when I played indifferant and created a bad situation, I really thought I was being differentiated. 'superior' to the jealousy games. I was not acting in a proactive fashion though. and definitely not protective or cherishing.
Regarding your sitch, does this new insight of yours only apply to relationships going forward, with new people, or can it be applied retroactively? Have you imposed a door on the past beyond which your new insights are not to apply?
