Eddie I understand where you are coming from, but that is exactly the frame of mind that is going to encourage her to continue on her way. If you the man, the scriptural head of the household, the biological protector, and the emotional tuning fork dont know what you want or even that you want her, let alone what decision to make, then to paraphrase David Deida, what the heck does she 'need' you for?
eddie she has plenty to work on herself, but by not making a decision as a man, you may as well roll around in woman repellant.
