oldtimer: Do you think I have treated my GF badly? If so, please point these out to me. DOes my talking about her past and about her seem inappropiate. Maybe it was, but I was looking for an honest evaluation of her and not looking to make her look bad.
Green: It is amzing to see how much differnet she reacts to me since I have asked her to leave. I don't understand her thinking.
Thanks for both your comments. Yes, I will continue counseling but I would like to understand 'Why you think I need it so much'.