The more people that tell them how wrong the are, the more THEY want to prove how right they are..
I don't want to downplay the effects of your W's words on you but my H has also said that if we D, it's not to leave our M for OW. And, guess what? I, too, have these "personality flaws" that have become unbearable to live with. Do we need to change? Yes, we do! Are we these horrible unloving creatures? No!
If her timeframe is fall, you have the whole summer to work on your goals
