I am attracted to a ‘wild’ look in a women. Aren’t most men?
I wouldn't bet on it.
I drew the conclusion that your first marriage was also sex starved from your own words. Perhaps it was phrased incorrectly, or perhaps I read into it.
But back to the phrase I quoted. If YOU are attracted to a "wild" look in a woman, AND you have a personality such as you do...where you give, and give, and give...and are pretty laid back. Well, not a good combination. Women like the ones you appear to be attracted to often want a STRONGER man themselves. One who won't let them run over them, or who won't allow them to dictate how things go....I'd go so far as to say many of them want that man to take control of THEM to an extent. That's not to say you aren't strong, but you don't appear it on the oustide. If you give, and give, and give...that equates to (sorry to say this) easily taken advantage of by a woman like what you seem to like. If you are fairly laid back, that can equate to easily run over. Both of those things over time...will turn off a woman with a wild/strong streak to her.
I really mean that as no insult to you either, I hope it doesn't come across that way. Today your current girlfriend is scared and understands where you are at (and she's making attempts) because you have become that strong male type that she is attracted to.
