Maybe that is why she is in such a panic state is that her seceret affair was outed by me and the people that love her the most know more about the truth.

The one thing that worries me is that my wife seems to have put a timeframe on this transition. She basically wants to move 40 minutes away so that our 5D can start kindergarten in that school district instead ours. Her plan is to move towards her sister and start going to her sisters church - begin a new life. The only thing that she doesn't mention in her plan is the OM, by the way his new apartment is that direction.

Her stance is that she is not leaving me for another man, she is leaving me because of all the other stated reasons. It really sucks to hear your W tell you that I have nothing to offer her....I am some shallow lifeless person with nothing to give to her. I know... do not listen to anything that she says. I just need to slowdown her breakneck speed for a D.