Help!YO YO H is killing me.

[Yoyowife]

Penny,
I'm so glad you have the support of your family. Let them be your rock. In my case the OW has turned my MIL against me. She told her all these negative things about me that my H had told her. She definitely embellished though! I know that we are not supposed to talk negative about OW to our spouses, but I did. I told him that she had ruined our family. I said she tore our family apart, not only has she ruined my relationship with my MIL, but she has also ruined relationship between my D's and their grandmother. They are hurt that she (MIL)would go around talking about me like that. Don't get me wrong I know my H has a role in this. I told him that he should have never told her anything about our personal life.

Maybe the long distant thing with you and your H could be to your advantage. You will be able to do things for yourself and not feel like you have to walk on eggshells all the time. Take care of yourself and enjoy your boys!