I believe now more than ever that she knows what she is doing. I believe that there is no MLC for her, that this is truly what she wants-to live in a trailer with OM with no job and live off the little lottery ticket that the divorce will bring.
Toncatt,
You can not believe how many times I have thought the same thing. What if I am just wasting my life and H has made this choice and it is what he really wants. Then later I think what if it really is something that he can recover from and I don't put forth the effort to save us. Only to have him shortly do something that proves he is just going along with his life and is not concerned at all about me--no illness, just plain selfishness on his part--me, me, me.
It has to be harder for you because of your son and the way she is mistreating both of you.
Make the decission and live with it. I wish nothing but the best for both of you.
