Hello all. I mostly read, have posted once. The one thing that I notice is that everyone is quite serious since separation about making things right to get back together, while trying to discourage, shall we say, odd behaviors. So, now that I have been separated for 9 months (H left for another city), and am really quite comfortable haveing DB'd my way to being comfortable and changing who I am and balancing my life with two D's 4 and just-turned-1, I am having second thoughts about actually reconciling. So begs the question, Now what?
