While some people do crave drama, and sometimes that does seem to kick-start their libido....for guys like my H, that doesn't work. It only pushes him further away.
I second that opinion - there was nothing, ever, in our M called "makeup sex". I have heard about it, and it sounds great, but it never, ever happened. All arguing did in our M was push him further and further away, just like you said GEL.
Heywyre
M - 57 H - 65 1st A-bomb - Nov 27/02 2nd A-bomb - Dec 13/06 together 21 years *************************** Insanity is doing something over and over and expecting different results (Albert Einstein)