I was the same way. I was in kind of a shock mode. After about 2 weeks I decided to GAL. I called my daughter and her BF and we went out last Friday. I had a good time. Tonight I may call my friend and see if he wants to go play pool. I too love my wife. I forgive her for what she did. I will do whatever it takes to make our relationship work but she needs to be the one to decide if that is what she wants. I can’t convince her. I did draw the line on having sex with the OM. I told her if that happens again it’s over. I did not however tell her she had to stop calling him. I can’t control her nor do I want to. She has to decide she does not need to talk to him. I am giving her space. Having a good time with my son. She has seen this and I think may be starting to feel a little left out. Maybe she is maybe she isn’t. All I know When she can see that she can get from me what ever she is getting from him she will end it. If she does not feel that I can make her happy I figure by going out with my friends I’m kind of practicing being single. Now of course I’m saying this today and tomorrow I may be down again but hey one day at a time
Hang in there
And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know
