SIL calls and wants to fill me in on her conversation with W.
I'm being very careful of this stuff, third party interference good or bad is a negative.
SIL tells me that W has been talking with our pastors wife, quasi counseling. PW told W to give herself to me as a sacrifice unto the Lord, do it for God and let God take care of her type thing. That I am still her husband, still taking care of my responsibilities and such. SIL asked W what she thought of this and W said, she can try but that I take any kind of giving as hope and W just doesn't feel that way. She gets so anxious, desperate feeling and can't imagine herself one more minute in this situation. W also told PW that she doesn't want to be this way with me and wishes PW knew her longer so PW could see just how against W's nature it is to be this cold to me.
SIL asked me what I thought, what does this mean? Now, to be fair, SIL thinks the D my W wants is a big mistake and W has no idea what W is getting into. That life after the D is hard, a lot harder than W can imagine. SIL went through a D last year. At the time SIL even said, it will be hard for a little while. A year later SIL says, I didn't know it would be this hard for this long. Her perspective has changed dramatically.
Even so, I told SIL, that it's obviously a conversation between W and PW that she shared with SIL. I don't want to take too much from it as I wasn't directly involved so I don't know what was really said by PW or W. I left it at that, and changed the subject.
I think this is almost hopeful, maybe. I don't know.
What I do know is I have a S14 and one of his buddies waiting for me outside by our basketball rim. It's time to open a can on them. I'm going for 3s all night, nothing but net.
