Question #1 During the MC meeting yesterday my W said that she talked to her C about Communicating in E-mails. It seems she to her C that I communicate better in E-mail. And that besides talking I should continue the E-mail her. Well I am distancing myself and giving my W space so what should I e-mail her about?
Question 2 My W also said that she feel that she is the one that always makes the arrangements and takes care of all of the plans when we go away somewhere. Then at dinner last night. For some reason she actually sat at the dinner table with me and made my son get away from the computer and eat with us. When I mentioned that my son said something earlier in the day about going to see the Winchester mystery house she said we need to go on mini vacations this year. I opened my big mouth and asked if she wanted me to make the arrangements she said yes.
If I do this am I sliding on my Detachment? My son will be there and I see it as maybe a Family thing.
I just got off the phone with My C I asked her what she thought about the meeting. She said that My W is really confused; she was disappointed my w never said anything about working on our relationship.
I think my wife is confused. I think she is afraid of working on the relationship until she knows why she feels the way she does and why she did what she did. I think she feels she is at the cross roads, has hurt me and does not want to do it again. So if she works on the relationship before she figures her problems we might end up getting the D and she will be hurting me all over again.
Am I reading to much into this????
And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know
