Cades, I have a question for you. Our 25th anniversary is coming up next month. I know he could care less about it but it means something to me. We had always talked about renewing our vows this year but instead he's talking D. I want to get him something but it can't be sentimental or anything like that. Would you or anyone else have any ideas? I had also thought about putting a letter with the card letting him know I forgive him and that from this day on I plan on moving forward. Good idea or no? I haven't seemed to be able to do anything right lately and I don't want to backslide any more than I apparently already have.
