Thank you for the comments. I just got Sex Starved Marriage last night and I am trying to really look closely at myself.
I posted about this earlier, but when I say I'd like him to "Liberate" me, (use the Liberator pillows we bought) he doesn't always do it. Lazy?? When I told him recently, he should pour some honey on me in a favorite spot and lick it off, he never did it. (He has made comments before about being turned off about food and sex, but I guess I didn't think this was the same. I thought he would find it sexy.)
Like I said, I'm gonna try and blow his mind tonight. I'll push myself, I'll let you guys know how I do.