Oldtimer makes a good point about women being a more "sexual being" outside of M. I think it happens after we have children and think of ourselves as the "mom." That's what I was doing anyway -- I think I had a problem turning mom off and becoming sexual goddess that I am Anyway, it is something you have to consciously do and realize that it's ok to be both. After awhile, it becomes second nature. You find yourself before children and realize you can still be that person even w/ the kids.
Me: 38 H: 35 S4, S5, S10 Bomb 01/07 Wanted D - nothing would change his mind Numerous A's prior to D bomb; EA prior/during D bomb Piecing 04/07 Deployed for a year 05/07 Still Piecing 2010 M 11 yrs 05/10
Anyway, it is something you have to consciously do and realize that it's ok to be both. After awhile, it becomes second nature. You find yourself before children and realize you can still be that person even w/ the kids.
