So what's my wife supposed to do, for it not to be "weird," turn down every social invitation from her 20- and 30-something co-workers? She's already turned down about the first DOZEN of them; the lunch and the b-day drinks last nite were the first things she finally said "yes" to. Her boss -- the supervisor of all of the CPTs -- is in his late sixties. The male group invited him to Disney's "Islands of Adventure" in Orlando next week -- just the guys -- and the old guy is going, I give him credit!
You guys are focused on the wrong guy. The 21yo isn't the threat, in my opinion. There is a trainer there who my wife has seemed physically attracted to, and then there's a front-desk guy who's not the physical specimen that the trainer is, but is a sensitive guy who's paid special attention in taking over my wife's diet and training regimen. She talks about him often. It's THIS guy -- followed by the big guy -- that I'm watching, NOT the 21yo that's dating D18.
btw, my keylogger caught the following from my wife about two weeks ago:
