I don't know the exact amount of time, but I think it started as an EA two years ago and this last fall it became PA. I have know n since September and at the beginning of this year things seemed to be turning around. H had stopped going out and staying over night, but then I found out that the OW was using the "come bring your kids to this Bday party kinda thing on the weekends when I was busy or out of town. She knew how to get him by using the girls and saying they will have alot of fun! I became upset and changed things around decided to go semi dark and detached majorly. He then believed I was seeing soemone and I think thats when they started up again big time and he was staying out again.
yes, I know I have to start DB'ng all over again. Thank you for replying. I wondered if anyone was going to say anything at all!
In one of his emails today he said- lets not prolong this anymore b/c you and I want to be free?? I don't know where he gets that I want freedom. I told him he hs his freedom already as he comes and goes as he wishes and I don't argue about it or even argue about anything anymore!
Question- Cadesmom
I know the following statement will make me loose all if any respect H has for me,but I feel like grasping for anyhting at this point! What do you think if I told him- things are fine right now, you have your freedom and you don't have to pay me any child support!
