That's ok. Thank you for your post! It made my day \:\) I think him not talking about "stuff" is just kind of a guy thing. My mom said that to me this a.m. and I have to agree Everything is fine as far as he is concerned, so let's just press on, you know?

I just feel so much better now that I got that OW paragraph out there and he knows how much it hurts me and he will have to be very conscious of what he is doing IF he is still talking to anyone.

Like I said, though, we did have a very nice convo this a.m. that made me feel really good about things. We'll see if he ever responds to the email and, if he does, what he has to say. I'm still just afraid he may be a bit mad or irritated because I brought anything up, but I don't want to live like that anymore. I need to feel like I can talk to him about anything or I am going to continue to feel distant from him and it will just get worse as time goes by.

Me: 38
H: 35
S4, S5, S10
Bomb 01/07
Wanted D - nothing would change his mind
Numerous A's prior to D bomb; EA prior/during D bomb
Piecing 04/07
Deployed for a year 05/07
Still Piecing 2010
M 11 yrs 05/10