I honestly don't know what to tell you. I think maybe that's why a lot of people are reading, but not responding. I guess your only bet is to go back to some major db'ing and hope you can turn things back around. I just don't know if that's possible though w/ you calling the OW, pushing for D, etc.

How long has the A been going on ?

Me: 38
H: 35
S4, S5, S10
Bomb 01/07
Wanted D - nothing would change his mind
Numerous A's prior to D bomb; EA prior/during D bomb
Piecing 04/07
Deployed for a year 05/07
Still Piecing 2010
M 11 yrs 05/10