Wow, I think you are an amazing woman for doing all that you do, and as you stated, not complaining, and 2nd for not asking ANY details about the past. (I thought it was deserved, but did at least SOME raking over the coals of my H).
You were incredibly supportive and even APOLOGETIC in that email. For you, I'm a bit peeved that he didn't gush saying, thank you honey, for all the support, you're the greatest!! I think it's not nice of him to act like he had not read it. Hopefully, he will initiate SOME talk about it soon. Maybe your relationship style is less open? Maybe he feels a little uncomfortable addressing it? Anyhow, I think you did an AWESOME job supporting him and showing him RESPECT even given the situation, yet showed a little firmness too in telling him any continued attention away from you is hurtful.
WTG, girl!
Now time to do as much GAL'ing as your current situation will allow you to do and concentrate on you!
