He wants to be with you as long as you and D give up your home, family, friends, etc., and move somewhere that you've made it clear you don't want to be. And....yes, he's lonely. Statistics show that there are about 9 men to every 1 woman in Alaska. Hmmm.... What is he willing to do for you once you move there? And, why is he not willing to move where you are if he's so bent on making you happy?