And I can say been there done that. When I was invited to move back (about one month into our separation - I wasn't DB'g yet, but I was becoming the person I wanted to be), I too backslid - became needy and wussy. W saw this and broke off the moveback.
The good news was I just hunkered down that much more. There was a lot more work to do - but please know that all is not lost when you backslide - its just that you have to work that much harder at staying committed to the changes you are making. One important thing to note - be sure the changes really are for YOU. If they are not, it will be really hard to keep them sticking and you'll be selling out. However, if you liked what you were becoming over those two weeks, that is a huge plus.
Hang in there.
Sven
Never sacrifice the great for the good. Sometimes the beauty of grace is that it makes life not fair.
