I'm the last one to tell you if it was right or wrong. It seems that anything concerning R's is a toss up. For the past 3 nights I've called my H before going to bed just to say goodnight. Well last night he calls me back and tells me he doesn't want me calling every night like that that he doesn't like it. So now I've decided that he can just call me and I won't call him. Is that the right thing to do? He seems to be setting rules for everything and anything. I hope things can be different when I get there but with each new "rule" I can't help but wonder. I feel that if it's important some things need to be discussed however the other party doesn't seem to feel the same way. All I can suggest is that you opened it up for him and now it's up to him if he responds to it or not. If he does great if he doesn't let it go for now. Good luck
