Matilda,

CL is giving you some very good advise and i agree with him on this . I think you do need to take a step back breath and let him come to you. Right now he knows you are there when ever he wants you to be available to him it makes it easy for him. keep with your goals do things for you( like your goal with your decluttering) and with you DD and try to enjoy the peice and quiet from your sitch for a few days.
JAK





Last edited by jak58; 05/10/07 05:32 PM.
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