My husband is out of town a lot on business so the times I spend online are usually when he's not around. But what I have told him is that I go to a web support site that helps people deal with infidelity and strengthening their marriages. He's very busy, tends to be engrossed in his own things and has little interest in what I do so I can tell him this without him wanting to see it or asking questions.
I do think of it as kind of a private place for me. A sort of support group that helps me realize I'm not alone. There are others going through the same thing. I'm not the only crazy person married to someone who has cheated on them andis trying to keep the marriage and family together in spite of this.
There is no arriving, ever. It is all a continual becoming.
