I just wondered what wise vets recommended in terms of sharing with their spouse their time spent on this board?
I have not shared with my H that I post here, though in the beginning I did mention the book and I mentioned that I was finding support at a message board related to the book. He didn't act like he cared much at all.
I worry that he will check the internet history and see HOW MUCH time I've spent here, in addition to posting lots of details about our sitch, including his emails to OW, a letter he wrote to me and every relevant conversation we've had in the past few weeks.
I find it is nice to use this as a journaling space and when I get advice back, all the better. I feel like everyone here, for the most part, is of the same mentality as I am, do what needs to be done to save your marriage. Though my friends don't come out and say so, I think they would see some of my behavior as being a doormat.
Just wanted some thoughts on how others have handled this.
