I have read THOUSANDS of affair stories now. Not a few, not hundreds, but thousands. You would not believe the gross similarities between them. The stories are in the thousands, the themes could all fit on a couple of pages they are so common.
You already know what I think from previous posts. I will add to it a bit.
Expect your wife to want you to cosign or outright buy her a sporty car soon.
I hope you know what a MILF is, because that's what the younger guys are already calling her down at the gym.
So let me ask one question. Are you wanting the divorce (that is at present, inevitable) to be all her fault? She has the affair with the young guy, (insert typical older woman younger guy scenario here), then proceeds to financially rape you in the settlement. Is that the way you want it to come down so that your sense of guilt is aleviated? At least she has a job now, that will help a miniscule amount in the settlement.
Oh, and I would be especially suspicious of the 21 year old "boy friend" if I were you.
I have watched you sit idly by losing ground watching as events signaling worsening of your relationship go by with little more than a blip on your relationship radar.
I hope you don't mind sharing your wife, and at this point in the train wreck of your relationship, I think that you are making a serious mistake having unprotected sex with your wife if you two are having sex at all.
I will tell you one last time what you need to do, then I am butting out of your life.
MAN-UP and take back your life and wife.
If by some chance, you want help to do so, you better decide quickly. If she has not already spread her legs for another man, it is simply a matter of days before she does.
All the best, -NOPkins-
I will ferret out an affair at any opportunity.
-An affair is the embodiment of entitlement, fueled by resentment and lack of respect. -An infidel will remain unreachable so long as their sense of entitlement exceeds their ability to reason.
