Cobra,

But what if I don't care? Is your advice still the same, so that I can feel better about myself?

I honestly have zero romantic attraction to her anymore. She inconvenienced me last nite, as it was difficult to sleep until I knew she was home safe, so that plus the lack of respect by no-phone-call pissed me off. But I did not care one whit about how she feels about any of these other, younger guys.

I'm not saying that's right or wrong, or even healthy, but it's just how I feel.

thanks,

Choc.