My W told me that the OM is unhappy with his M and his W knows but I told her he is just telling her what she wants to hear. I asked her Have YOU talked to his with. When I asked if I could talk to his wife she told me that he does not want me to contact his family, He also calls her from pay phones a lot. (I used to look at the cell phone log but have since stopped because it always upset me.
She told me she trusts him and what he says. I told her I trusted her and look where it got me.
Don’t get me wrong, I’m not saying run from your H. But stay and work on your M because you love him not because he has threatened suicide


And if I claim to be a wise man, well
It surely means that I don't know