When my H last mowed the lawn he commented on how tall the trees we had planted had gotten. They were 3 feet tall when we planted them and are now over 30 ft tall. They notice these things but it is not real to them.
Continue to be kind to him, for yourself. There is no reason to be mean to him. It would just bring you down as a person. I am sure you are kind to strangers you meet, so treat your H the same way.
Me45 H45 D13 S10 together-23 years married-21 years MLC Divorced 10/3/07 Married to a wonderful new man.