Sounds like great progress to me. I think you two should probably have another meeting together, as I think alot of issues were talked about and many positive things came out.
I have read through your sitch, but could not find any info on how long it took for your wife to agree to counselling?
Did she go off the rails for some time before agreeing?
I was just wondering, because my W refused a few months ago, but her symptoms are so similar to your W's. I know that she would gain alot from counselling, if not for our R, it would help her in future R's.
Anyway, well done buddy. It all sounds positive to me.
AndyV M38 W36 D7 M 13 years Together 17 years W wants D mid Dec 06 (ring off) W wants separation early Jan 07 (she backdated to Oct 06) EA revealed end March 07 (Nov 06 W first meeting with OM) Hallmark moment "I care for you but am no longer in love with you."