Ok, my H just left. He came to bring the kids to daycare. He was here about 1/2 hour. I was very civil. I did not ask questions. He did not start an arguement. He asked for something to eat and I told him it was ok. He went out onto our deck and was admiring the yard. All he said was he was going to miss it. I want to think he is starting to think about what he has done. But I am not sure.
Is it to soon?
He came back after he brought the kids and asked if he could get dressed for work here. I did not want to be mean so I said it was ok. I hope I did not "give in". I just felt that since his suit was here and he has this big meeting today to discuss issues with his job I would be "kind".
When he was leaving I wished him luck and told him he could call if he wanted.
I still feel like I can be a friend to him right now. I know that it is not just feeling sorry for him because of this problem at work.
Any comments on what is going on here would be greatly appreciated.
Thank you all for your help. mimi
Bomb 3/31/2007 Moved out 04/22/2007 Moved back in 06/11/2007 Wants to stay and try 09/04/2007