Good morning MC - Here's my 2 cents again (whether you want it or not!). First, I agree that it is too soon in this for you to either give up or make demands. Look at my sitch.. I've wanted and tried to do both and luckily my H has actually reeled me in! Obviously, neither strategy has worked either!
Unfortunatley, these things do take time and I believe that you are seeing some positive movement. Take those things and go with them! If she craves conversation, give her some in small doses and see how it goes. She obviously likes being around you and you are doing excellent in giving her just enough of you to keep her coming back. It's a fine line to walk... In the end, your hard work will be worth it.
I'm here with you in the exact same place.. trying to be patient
