Need another opinion, is my W OM, friend or more?

[andyv]

Funny thing happened today.

W got angry and left two angry phone messages and I had 6 missed calls.

I was at work, and being a thursday, I normally go out with friends or family and get home late (W has Mon/Tue/Wed and Sat nights, I get Thu and Fri).

Last Thur and Fri nights I slept at my sisters house (W did not know were I slept, and did not ask). Last Fri she left a message saying that DD was worried about me, and if I could call her to let her know everything was alright (DD goes to sleep before I get home and I leave for work before she gets up, unless she worries in her sleep, I don't think so).

Well today being a Thu, she wanted me to pick up DD from school (W knows this is the night I go out), I txt her that I couldn't, as I was staying in the city tonight.

My phone was on silent whilst at work, and when I left I noticed two messages and 6 missed calls.

It was W asking if I was coming home or "staying out all night like last week". Next message after 3 minutes got angrier with "I don't give a s**t if you don't want to talk to me, but at least tell DD that you wont be home tonight".

I txt her that my phone was on silent, hence the missed calls and yes I was planning on spending the night at a friends near work.

She sent me a txt back "Thank you for your response."

Then an hour later she left another message about a bill, which could waited till tomorrow.

I had a nice dinner with my sister and now am at her place relaxing, whilst W can stew like I have had to with her night owl activities for the past several months.

Does anyone think I may be pushing it a bit, it's not as if I am doing anything wrong. She is the one having EA, going to OM place, staying there till 3 am, going out till 5 am etc.