The meeting went pretty good. My wife is truly confused. I know she does not know what she wants. She was “lonely” and needed someone to talk to. She did say she took our marriage vows seriously and would have never thought of sleeping with another man and that if he wasn’t someone she had cared for in the past it would not have happened. I believe her. I think this MARRIED guy is just a player. I think he is using her. Anyway I think in her confused state at this time he and I are on equal ground except I am here and he is in another state. So the game of winning the girl is on my home turf. She did bring up that some how I communicate best through E-mails so her councilor wants me to start e-mailing her. I’m trying to detach and GAL but I need to communicate through E-mails. Any suggestions’ on what I should write? We did have a little talk before bed. (Still sleeping in separate rooms) I thanked her for showing up and to;d her “she has given me a lot to think about”. She said she thought is was a good idea because now my councilor knows her and knows where she is coming from and my C will be able to help me. My W is going to ask her C at their next meeting about me coming to one of hers so her C can meet me and get to know me. Sounds like we are making progress right?
And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know
