BND,

I can't believe that you would insinuate anything about my marriage from what I said.

I didn't make it to piecing but it wasn't from lack of trying. Sometimes our choices are made for us.

You don't know me or my motives. My heart goes out to the people here that are in pain. I just want J to think about what the pay off is for her and only she knows her husband well enough and his past history to answer that.