It went really smooth. She was late and I was thinking she was not going to show but called me on the cell and said traffic was bad and she would be there in a minute. We when in and my Councilor. Asked her to tell he what is going on. My W told her that she really cares about me but does not feel (love) for me like she did when we first got married. She started crying a little.(my W not the Councilor) She had a weak moment and got into contact with someone she really cared about in the past. She stated all that did was”muddy the water. She is seeing her own Councilor. To try to find out what changed. Why she feels the way she does. I pretty much kept my mouth shut. My W talked about some things her and he Councilor were doing. My councilor stated that there is obviously a communication problem in our marriage and how marriages go through stages. There is the honey moon stage where things that are alike are emphasized and things that are different between us are minimized. The next stage is things that are alike get minimized and things that are different get maximized. We kind of got stuck in that stage. She told my wife that if we both work at it we can over come this stage. She told my wife that she is sure what ever feeling the OM gave her she could get that from me. In the end my councilor asked where do we go from here? Should we have another session, should I come back by myself? Should my W continue to see her coulcler by her self? We agreed that we should hold of on another joint meeting at this time to give my W more time to see her Councilor. My Councilor isgoing to call me nextweek to see how I’m doing. That’s is in a nut shell
I forgot to say "you havegiven me alot to think about. I did say at the end. W just because i'm giving you space, don't tak it to mean I don't care... She replied I knnow you care
Happy ending so far?
WW did you get any of my e-mails?
And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know
