Well, he is alot clueless, a little selfish, wanting to do good, but not realizing it looks different to you.
I also think you haven't made an informal agreemment to join him, I think you know it's pretty much a done deal.
Some men just have to have a crazy life, and he is one of them. You may be a homebody, who wants a nice feathered nest, but he wants Alaska, and he wants you, so obviously he has told the heroes all this, so they offered you a job. He is probably feeling kinda proud of himself, of what he has accomplished, and when yall get up there, he will be pleased as punch.
The sisters will have to use their cell phones alot, and hopefully have camera phones. Email, too.
I don't think his heroes are the ones he truly loves, he needs to do what he is doing, as much as he needs to breathe, and he wants you to be there to share it with him. And you are not doing all the hard work, he will be working hard for your approval, that'll be tough.
And yes, you are whining, and grieving, but that's understandable.
Yes, learn to shoot, take up needlepoint, sewing, art, reading, enjoy having lots of sex with your H after not so much of it. Maybe learn to do scrimshaw, or take up running in case you have to run from a bear when your gun jams.
And most of all, remember you are off on a great adventure, the biggest one of your life, most likely.
