How do I know if it is MLC

[bright 2 morro]

Ok folks, Today I went to the councilor. The same one we saw together 5 weeks ago. He agreed with me and is going to help me get through the decisions that I need to make.

Then I proceed on to the lawyers office. He advised me of my rights and what I could do and what to watch out for. So far he does not think I am in to much trouble. He is not taking tons of money (why would he when he is a kept man now). But I know that all I have to do is call him and the family court is a done deal. I feel much more comforatble knowing that.

He was supposed to watch our boys tonight and mow the lawn. Guess what. He got tied up at "work" and could not make it here to do the lawn before he watched the boys. So I guess I get to take them with me to bring my daughter to dance and errands.

I am still wondering if he will do the lawn (ha ha). Oh yeah very reliable. He has been telling me he is goin to do the lawn for 2 weeks now. I guess I will be shocked when it actually happens.

I am not sure how to act around him yet. I am trying to not talk about anything having to do with us or OW. I am walking on "eggshells". What do I talk to him about? Sun, Sky, Moon, trees, grass. Ok that gets pretty boring. Do I talk to him about things in my life? Help Help Help How do I get him to talk to me. We used to talk about tons of things. But now I have no idea what to talk to him about. It is uncomfortable.

Mimi