Yes, I have filled out a couple of those questionnaires however I find them a little too generalized for the most part, like most online type of stuff. I am hoping this one the C gives us will be a little more insightful. I doubt it will tell us we are NOT compatible as we have pretty much always been "friends" and have a lot of the same interests.
However, to be compatible there has to be a lot more than just common everyday interests. There are other things that a lot more deep rooted - i.e. moral values, the infamous "boundaries" our C keeps talking about, religious/spiritual and/or political views - just to name a few
My H and I never had children together, this is my second marriage and his third and my children were 8 and 10 when we got together, and now we are empty nesters, so the 'children' aspect of things was never an issue like it is for so many others on the board. So, perhaps, that is one of the reasons we concentrated more on what we had in common than a lot of younger couples do when they first get together.
I am not saying it is perfect, by any stretch, and there is always room for improvement, but for the most part I can work around our differences
Heywyre
M - 57 H - 65 1st A-bomb - Nov 27/02 2nd A-bomb - Dec 13/06 together 21 years *************************** Insanity is doing something over and over and expecting different results (Albert Einstein)
