I never said any of those things were NOT normal. What I (and oodles of others) have been saying is that YOUR version of what you see as "normal" is not necessarily what you wife sees as HER normal. So, you insist on distorting your version of what SHE should be doing, never taking into consideration that perhaps she is thinking the exact same thing about YOU
Heywyre
M - 57 H - 65 1st A-bomb - Nov 27/02 2nd A-bomb - Dec 13/06 together 21 years *************************** Insanity is doing something over and over and expecting different results (Albert Einstein)